Masturbation and Sex Today

Masturbation from my own view is the process of exciting the reproductive organ with the hands by a person. Masturbation has become a major problem to youth these days because of the exposure we get from both movies and newspapers. Youths are encouraged often times by certain people to ease their sexual urge themselves. Companies these days have taken over this propagation by producing different sex materials ranging from sex toys, to vibrations. Certain creams are also used.

Science has helped man in so many ways but the disadvantages are more than the advantages. From observations, science has about 40% advantage and 60% disadvantages. Youths who engage in this will experience many health and social problems. These include:

– Reduction in sexual urge when they get married
– Many back related problems
– Osteoporosis a medical condition in which bones in the body becomes porous there by causing fracture from time to time.

This is because somehow linked to many things including abortions. It is more from statistics in females than in males and occur later in life usually from ages 45 above

– Heart related problem: people who engage in such practices have been observed to develop serious to mild health problems which in turn lead to other health problems. High blood pressure is more common and this is often difficult to separate from diabetes.

– Mar your image; people, youth most especially who engage in illicit sex lose their respect. It is a very common cause of broken relationships because the guy has seen every thing about the lady. There is this true life story of a lady who just got married. She asked her husband where they where going to spend their honey moon and the man interrupted almost immediately that there was nothing the lady has in her body that is worth the burden because he had already seen every thing. The lady wept.

– Mistrust: those who engage in illicit sex are usually suspicious. They think that their partners are playing off sides when they see them with others. There is also this reduction in trust for partners who engage in premarital sex. Normally ladies in such situations often have very little trust than those in relationships without sex. Check it out today. It is easier to convince a lady who has sex with her partner that he/she is unfaithful than those in relationships without sex. In fact from recent observations it is very difficult to pop into a lady in a relationship without sex and try to make claims that her opposite is unfaithful. The same goes for males too.

– Marriage always fragile: those who engage in premarital sex or sex outside marriage have very fragile marriages as this is the main reason why America is quietly suffering from divorces and threats of such. The high rate of the so called hot people in the society is making marriage durations short lived as many marriages are actually aborted. When a relationship is built on sex, it has 85% likelihood that it will not stand. Majority of the marriages we have that has stood the test of time is because of foundation they laid.

A relationship is actually like one that is building a house.those who start their building on shallow foundations like sex rather than knowing each other, understanding each other and defining boundaries.

A relationship that starts with sex is indirectly telling you that both of you are cheap and not fit for it. A real relationship is one that you go into it and find it exciting. A real relationship is one that when it leads to marriage is like unwrapping a gift, a world where you go and make exploits and have every relaxed mind that the lady’s relations will not follow you, neither are you afraid of pregnancy nor are you afraid of catching std’s.

Save your self such inconveniences and start preparing yourself for a long lasting and exemplary relationship and marriage. Do you want be a celebrated person tomorrow and also want to be a role model to someone today?
I dare you today. Take a step today. I am also a youth like you, have all it takes to get a lady but I keep on asking myself of the profit of sex in relationships. We youths have many questions, like you want to know the capacity of your partner. Know if he/she is sweet, do it for money. But is it the definition of love. True love is patient, kind, is not self seeking, and has a direction that is not dangerous. True love is respectful, kind, trustworthy, real. What is your own definition of a relationship?

A real relationship is one that when it leads to marriage is like unwrapping a gift, a world where you go and make exploits and have every relaxed mind that the lady’s relations will not follow you, neither are you afraid of pregnancy nor are you afraid of catching STD’s.

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