What you are about to read may shock you. I’ve got a confession to make. I, like most other hot women, am attracted to men that spend a significant amount of time and money dedicated to their appearance.
Once men accept that hot women are attracted to metrosexuals, how do they pull off the ‘look’ without appearing too over the top?
We all know that celebrity chick magnets don’t wake up looking like a million bucks. It takes time and effort to pull off that look and even more effort to make it seem effortless!
This article is for average men who want to uncover the secrets of how to attract ultra hot and exceptional looking women.
Secret #1 — Become Aware of the Way You Look
If you ask any hot woman, she knows right away what her best features are. She can also tell you which you aren’t going to get to see until you REALLY like her. We play up our best features and make sure that your total focus is on them. You want to emulate this strategy.
I want you to stand in a full length mirror. Then ask yourself, what are your best features and which should you play down. For example, if you have buff arms and thin legs make note of that. If your eyes are complemented often, but you haven’t worked out in years and it shows, make note of that.
Once you’ve fully assessed yourself, run your observations by someone else. This should be someone that you know will tell you the absolute truth.
Believe it or not, this simple task will get you well on your way to metrosexual chick magnet thinking.
Secret #2 — Dress to Impress
If up until today, you prided yourself on thinking that shopping is for women – it’s time to change your tune! I want you to start thinking that shopping is for men who have style and get chicks! I know you’ve seen pictures of Brad Pitt (the ultimate chick magnet and metrosexual) with shopping bags in his hands!
Now that you are aware of what your best attributes are, it’s time to play them up. For example, I know that I have phenomenal legs but at 5’4 they’re shorter than I would like. If I wear high heels and short skirts, men notice how great my legs are without thinking that they’re short.
Metrosexuals play up their best features with their attire. If you’re heavy in the mid section a sports coat can go a long way. If you have a great butt, feel free to wear jeans that fit well on your back side. Michael Mcquown, CEO of http://www.MatchRanger.com and self proclaimed metrosexual says, “I notice that when I wear blue shirts, women always complement me on my blue eyes.”
Some Attire Tips that Work for All Men Are:
” Always buy boot cut jeans.
” Pay attention to your shoes – style always trumps comfort!
” Size matters. If your clothing is too big, she’ll think
your mom did your shopping. If it’s too tight, she’ll be wondering if you’re homosexual instead of metrosexual.
” Match your belt color with your shoe color.
” If you’re new at this, stick with brand names that are
sold at department stores.
Secret #3 – Pay Attention to Your Grooming Habits From Hair to Hygiene
Are you aware that the women you consider hot and sexy don’t wake up looking that way? It takes work and time! If you’re planning to have some of this eye candy on YOUR arm – you’re going to have to spend some time on your grooming habits as well.
Let’s Start With the Hair on Your Head
Unless the bald look works for you, you’re going to want to spend a little bit of time and money on your hair. Find yourself a reputable salon. If you are clueless, just ask any hot woman and she’ll be able to point you in the right direction. Make sure your stylist gives you tips on how to maintain your new look.
Moving On To the Hair On Your Body
My best advice is to take MOST of it off! You can shave, wax, tweeze, or laser it off. Start with your face and work your way down. ‘Unibrow’ days are over. Properly groomed eyebrows are important to all metrosexuals. Facial hair depends on your preference. You just want to make sure it doesn’t scream, “I need a shower.” Hair on the chest is passable as long as it’s only a tiny bit. Hair on the back needs to go. Hair on the legs is perfectly acceptable as long as it’s trimmed.
What about Hair ‘Down There’?
This one is simple. Metrosexuals trim or shave completely. Bush is out!
” Take a shower before you go out.
” Pay attention to your teeth – a good dentist can help you score!
” Always wear cologne.
” Don’t skip the antiperspirant deodorant.
” Cut your finger and toe nails.
Secret #4 — You Want to Make it Seem Effortless
When you first start dabbling in metrosexual waters, it’s going to take time, money and lots of effort. You may have a desire to let women know all the trouble you’ve gone through to achieve your new look.
This is a pit fall and unfortunately for you, a double standard. While it may be perfectly acceptable for women to discuss their beauty secrets and mall time, you are not a woman. You are a straight male gone metro. Hot and gorgeous women are guaranteed to notice you. Let that be recognition enough for your hard work!
McQuown states that at MatchRanger.com they’ve found, “the men who get the most dates, are on to the metrosexual trend.” As an expert dating coach, I’ve had men go from having a hard time getting a date, much less an ultra hot one, to being a total chick magnet using these same techniques!